In the Garden of Gethsemane in Valhalla Memory Gardens, Steve Snyder leans on his freshly sharpened spade as Robert and Rebecca Ayers approach him. The Ayers ask Snyder to show them the burial plots they purchased earlier that morning.
As Snyder leads the Ayers to their eventual resting place, they follow him in a slow, cautious stroll, as if they are afraid of Snyder and what he will show them.
"Here you go," Synder said, pointing with his spade to the ground. "These are yours."
The Ayers look at the ground -- their future home -- with moderate disappointment.
"This is the closest we could get to our son," said Robert Ayers, a Bloomington resident.
Their son, Kendall, died last fall when he was 50. He is 20 yards away from his parents, but from where his parents stand, it seems like a mile.