Making the pieces matter
In my last column I mentioned the time I tried to introduce my (nonstudent) friend Shelly to some of my IU friends, with disastrous results. Shelly grew up in Bloomington and went away to college. A few years ago she decided it was time to change careers and came home to stay with her parents while she considered her options. One of the reasons that evening went so poorly was that Shelly felt the students were judging her, if not as a "townie," at least as an unemployed twenty-something living with her parents. She told me at one point, "I just want to shake a couple of them and yell 'Life doesn't always work out like you plan!'"

