Spring is here, IU students, and with it, the rush to find a place to call home for the fall semester. With apartment availabilities quickly dwindling and time running out to find that perfect spot, something you might not be thinking about is roommates.
Nothing can make or break a year at IU like roommates. Trust me, I’ve lived with the best roommate anyone could ask for and also the worst. So, buckle up because here are tips for how to live with your roommate(s).
Make time for your roommate(s)
Nothing makes a potential friendship stronger than setting aside time to spend with that person, which includes your roommate. My roommate and I always end our days watching the hottest Netflix show like “Bridgerton,” but there are other ways to bond. You could hit the books with your roommate every week and have a study session together, or you could cook together. You could also spend your Saturdays wandering around Bloomington’s downtown or attend Late Nites at the Indiana Memorial Union on Fridays. The choice is entirely up to you, but remember, making time is important.
Set ground rules
One of the fastest ways a rooming situation can sour is if rules are not established ahead of time. You and your roommate don’t want to spend your time fighting over whose turn it is to clean the toilet or to vacuum the carpet. It is important to come up with any necessary rules, including those with significant others, before the situation comes up.
Respect each other’s privacy
This tip cannot be overstated. In a small apartment or especially a dorm, there are times when you or your roommate needs their space, and not giving that space can turn a fun year into a miserable one. During my freshman year, my roommate’s boyfriend was constantly spending the night, and it drove me crazy. I was never able to have my alone time, which is something everyone needs. If your roommate asks for alone time, give it to them. By respecting each other’s privacy, you will both be able to relax and recharge before going back to a fun semester.
This article is part of the Spring 2024 Housing & Living Guide, an IDS special publication.
