Thanksgiving break is slowly approaching and I’m ecstatic, as I assume
most students are. We’re all looking forward to real food, no homework
and free laundry.
But I have to admit the part of every break I
most look forward to is walking through the door, dropping my bags and
getting sucker punched in the stomach by my dog.
Oh, and seeing my family. That part’s good, too.
I
know I can’t be the only one who fangirls over her dog. Our generation
has an unnatural and adorable obsession with our pets. And there’s no
shame in it.
We like to brag about how cute they are, what
tricks they can do and their funny quirks. When we see other dogs, we
think of what our dogs would do in that situation.
You’ll have to forgive the bias toward dogs. I’m not a cat person.
I
could go on for days about my dog. In fact ... His name is Kingsley.
He’s a boxer. He’s anti-social, loves pizza, is allergic to nature and
enjoys long ear rubs. So basically he’s me in dog form. Except for the
ear thing.
And my best friends have similar relationships with
their dogs. In fact, that’s how we became friends. Our dogs were our
conversation starter. And the conversation hasn’t ended since.
I
use my dog to connect with other people, whether it’s during an
icebreaker in class or a random conversation somewhere. One fun fact
about me? I named my dog after a Harry Potter character. You like
carrots? My dog hates them. Oh, wow, you’re a neuroscience major? My dog
can high-five.
I’ve tried to psychoanalyze why our generation
feels this stronger affinity for animals, and it pretty much boils down
to Disney.
Talking to animals stopped being crazy when Disney
princesses started singing to them. After crossing that barrier, our
relationships with animals became limitless. Up until bestiality. Don’t
cross that line.
I’ve figured that there are two basic types of movies about animals.
The
first tells the story of the animal and focuses mostly on its
relationships with other animals, not people. For example, there’s “101
Dalmatians,” “Fox and the Hound,” and “Lady and the Tramp.”
They’re
all told from the perspective of the animal. Though there are people
involved, they aren’t as important. Through these movies we, as
children, learned to sympathize with animals. The voices lent to them
through the animation made them more human, and we continue to think of
them like that.
The second type is movies about an animal’s
relationship with a human. Think of “Old Yeller,” “Homeward Bound,” and
“Air Bud.” “Air Bud” isn’t Disney, but it’s about how a dog helps a
lonely boy find self-confidence.
In “Homeward Bound” the dogs
and cat literally go on a journey to get their humans back. And the
relationship between Travis Coates and Old Yeller will rip your heart
out and push it through a paper shredder.
In these movies, the
animals were more than just pets. They were best friends and family. And
so that’s how we grew to view our own pets.
And I think
treating our pets like family is perfectly healthy. You might get crazy
looks if you’re like me and refer to yourself as your pet’s mom, but
you’re expressing love, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
— lnbanks@indiana.edu
Follow columnist Lexia Banks on Twitter @LexiaBanks.
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