Health, wealth and relationships

Erik von Markovik, aka “Mystery” from VH1’s “The Pickup Artist,” teaches that all success and happiness in life is a result of our health, wealth and relationships. Anytime you are down or feel that something is wrong in your life, it is because you are missing one of these essential components. More importantly, all of these aspects of life are very closely connected and have an effect on others. \nFor example, after breaking up with a longtime boyfriend or girlfriend, you might find that you become depressed or discouraged. As a result, you might lose motivation to go to the gym and your health might start to decline. When your health and relationships decline, you lose your drive for business, and your wealth suffers as well.\nOn the other hand, you might find that once you start exercising and doing cardio, you feel an extra spring in your step. You might find yourself being able to cope with stress and day-to-day issues. Many top executives and successful business people exercise on a daily basis. Of course, once you get some money in the bank and consistently go to the gym, you might find that some cute girls start to accidentally bump into you. You might also find that you have more energy and attract more energetic and positive people into your life. It’s just how life works.\nAs I started to become successful in business, I noticed that something was missing. I became aware that although I was successful in the wealth aspect of my life, I had ignored my health and failed to cultivate relationships. I had lost my balance.\nThis past summer, I set out to do two things: add 12 pounds of muscle mass with my trainer, Matt Hunckler, and take my ticket brokering company to a new level. When I set these goals I figured that the business goal would be much more difficult. I was wrong.\nAn interesting phenomenon happened. I found hitting the weights in the gym significantly harder than conducting business. In fact, with the help of my trainer, I was able to overcome mental and physical obstacles that were far more challenging than I had encountered in the business world. The weightlifting began to act as a motivator for every aspect of my life and spiraled me into a high level of success in business. \nTo write about business and not include the aspects of health and relationships is like writing about making soup without including all the ingredients. Health and relationships are crucial components of business success.\nI challenge you to start focusing on all aspects of your life. If you don’t exercise, start by running two to three times a week for 15 minutes. Sure, it is hard, but it will also clear your mind and help you deal with daily stresses. \nIf your relationships are suffering, go out and make some new friends. Ditch any people who do not want you to reach success in your life. They are bringing you down. Learn some game, do what you have to do. Remember, success in any one of these areas will lead to further success in other aspects of your life. At the same time, neglecting them will hurt the overall quality of your life. The choice is yours.