For the first time after a major election, I walked away from the television Tuesday night without the bitter taste of disappointment in my mouth. America overcame 200+ years of white-exclusive politics and elected the better – and black – man president.
It was a big day for our country. Within the last 50 years, blacks marching behind the banner of civil rights were fire-hosed and beaten. America has come a long way since that time, but we haven’t yet reached the promised land Martin Luther King, Jr. described in his historic speech. Little white boys and girls and little black boys and girls may join hands at school today – as long as their parents aren’t gay. Now in Arkansas, even loving, qualified parents of the same sex can’t adopt children.
One response would be to hold those who passed this discriminatory legislation accountable. After all, when African-Americans turned out to vote for the first major-party African American candidate in history (in numbers projected to be larger than ever before), they voted 70-30 to overturn gays equal rights to marriage. Their vote highlights how far we have to go as a nation before we understand what equality means. That increased votes by African Americans happy to see the realization of a life long march to equality for themselves are substantially responsible for taking away others’ rights is perhaps the most painful election result I’ve ever, ever seen.
But any sort of revenge against ethnic groups who voted for repression in the 21st Century is hardly the enlightened path to follow. To take a page from the MLK’s book, we should be looking for opportunities to better understand those who vote for hate and to reach out to them. Someday marriage equality will happen.
That’s why I feel Jon Stewart’s response is so much more productive. The first fight we have to pick is with those who spout positions like the parenthetical woman who appears in the video. It’s also great because it points out who financed the campaign. $23 million dollars came from Mormon activist groups.
As Jon Steward notes, they’ve clearly come along way from the day when they protested that marriage was not between one man and one woman. Of course, unlike gays, Mormons do have it convenient. As Christopher Hitchens wrote “in god is not Great,” when the feds threatened to overrun god’s own good polygamous land of Utah, they conveniently had a Revelation from the almighty with news that – what’d-ya know? – it’d be OK to marry one woman after all! (They did the same in the civil rights movement, Hitchens points out as well, conveniently getting a line from god that blacks weren’t evil after all just in time for the passage of the civil rights movement.) In this sense, the Mormons who financed this are a real non-threat. When marriage is quality is passed across this great land, I’m sure they’ll be offering free ceremonies for all homosexuals.
My other favorite piece of media from the fight for Prop8 is a lovely yellow t-shirt declaring God’s Law to be one man plus one woman. Come on activists, with this sort of media already thought of, how hard can it be to dissuade Christian Evangelicals from anti-gay voting?
My plan is to have these printed up with a nice big “SHARI’A” in Arabic and English replacing the “God’s Law” lettering. Lead a few protesters behind that equally anti-gay-marriage banner, and we’ll soon have every crazy evangelical who believes terrorists are everywhere voting against this now “un-Christian” proposition.
Remember, this won’t be forever. We WILL overcome.